There is no doubt that family estrangement feels emotionally complex for everyone involved. Even if you haven't spoken to your parents in years, their poor health or natural aging process may cause you to question reconciliation. What you do is a deeply personal decision without a definitive right or wrong answer. You have the right to take time to explore...[ read more ]
Every loss we face in life comes with its unique grieving process, and the death of a best friend can trigger intense feelings of sadness, anger, fear, confusion, and more. Unlike the death of spouses or core other family members, sometimes people unintentionally overlook the significance of a friend's death. However, this experience can feel just as shocking or gutting...[ read more ]
At some point, many working professionals face this kind of dilemma: they're burnt out, apathetic about work, or unsure whether they want to stay in their current role. This inner battle causes them to question: do I retire? Do I stick it out? Do I look for a different job altogether? Does any of this sound familiar to you? If...[ read more ]
Divorce occurring later in life, sometimes called 'gray divorce,' has become more common recently. Recent research shows that 36% of all couples divorcing are over age 50. Regardless of where you stand on this topic, it may be helpful to understand the nuances associated with this significant life transition. In any situation, divorce can be emotionally and logistically complicated. While each...[ read more ]
We often spend a great deal of time trying to build healthy relationships with our loved ones. You may care deeply for your partner, friends, coworkers, and children. You might try hard to consider their needs and attune to their emotional states. This is, after all, what it means to be a good friend or family members. But what about...[ read more ]
Emotional numbness is an act of self-protection. Sometimes, the body prepares for a threat by physically or emotionally shutting down- this is known as the freeze response, and it's a way to cope with immediate adversity. If you experience this stress response, it's important to understand its function and learn how to care for yourself. Let's get into some important takeaways....[ read more ]
Caregiver resentment can happen to anyone at any stage of the caregiving process. But this form of resentment can feel uncomfortable, confusing, depressing, and shameful. You might struggle to share how you feel with others because you don't want to be judged. Or, you may worry that you're complaining too much and burdening people with potential negativity. If you're struggling,...[ read more ]
Grief dreams are a typical part of any grieving process, but they can feel uncomfortable, sad, and even scary. They may happen just after the loss. However, they sometimes occur several months or years after the death of a loved one. The specific type or frequency of grief dreams varies from person to person. Some only have one grief dream,...[ read more ]
Life can deal us such a heavy hand sometimes. You may feel overwhelmed by the weight of the world. You might worry that things in your personal life will never get better. You may move around with this perpetual sense of dread or angst. Heaviness is an inherent part of life, and there's nothing wrong with feeling the gravity of...[ read more ]
When a friend betrays you, it can feel hurtful, confusing, and disorienting. It may trigger a sense of self-doubt, reinforcing deeper feelings of shame or inadequacy. Relationship trauma is unquestionably a real thing, and moving forward from any kind of rupture can be challenging. This is especially true if you've endured significant betrayals in the past. However, you can learn...[ read more ]