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How to Cope if You’re Spending the Holidays Alone

How to Cope if You’re Spending the Holidays Alone

This year, whether you’re spending the holidays alone due to physical distance, illness, work-related reasons, family conflict, or other reasons, it’s important to still take care of yourself. Here are some gentle reminders that may help you in the coming months.

5 Guidelines for Setting Boundaries With Your In-Laws

5 Guidelines for Setting Boundaries With Your In-Laws

Setting healthy boundaries can be challenging in any interpersonal dynamic. But in-laws often create added complexities, particularly if you don’t necessarily share the same values or don’t have the closest relationship.

How to Move Through Conflict Avoidance (And Still Be Respectful)

How to Move Through Conflict Avoidance (And Still Be Respectful)

You may actually perpetuate more anxiety, tension, and disruption. Furthermore, you might be triggering the very disagreements you hope to avoid. Learning how to manage conflict effectively is an important skill in any relationship. Here are some useful strategies to consider integrating.

6 Ways to Practice Gratitude When You’re Depressed

6 Ways to Practice Gratitude When You’re Depressed

Most people know that practicing gratitude has many profound physical and emotional benefits. However, tapping into your appreciation during a depressive episode can feel like trying to enjoy the sun during a rainstorm.

How to Cope at Work After a Colleague Dies

How to Cope at Work After a Colleague Dies

Coping with a colleague’s death can be logistically and emotionally difficult. While other types of losses, such as the death of a spouse, friend, or family member, are often talked openly about, the complex experience of losing a coworker isn’t always as readily named.

Why You May Not Be Able to Cry While Grieving

Why You May Not Be Able to Cry While Grieving

It can sometimes feel unnerving to not be able to cry during a particularly tenuous time. Maybe you resonate with feeling sad or scared, but the tears just won’t come. Maybe you want to cry and feel guilty that you can’t.

How You Can Explore Your Purpose in Retirement

How You Can Explore Your Purpose in Retirement

While many retirees first feel excited about the prospects of newfound freedom and relaxation, lacking structure can sometimes coincide with retirement anxiety, despair, or apathy. In some cases, this can lead to a retirement identity crisis.

How to Move Through Existential Dread When You Feel Depressed

How to Move Through Existential Dread When You Feel Depressed

Moving through existential dread can be challenging. And when you experience it amid depression, it may feel incredibly overwhelming. But you can cope with your intense feelings and harness a deeper understanding of yourself and your needs during this time.

9 Unconventional Ways to Immediately Reduce Acute Stress

9 Unconventional Ways to Immediately Reduce Acute Stress

Everyone experiences acute stress at times- it’s a typical reaction to external stimuli, and it can strengthen our mental focus, provide much-needed adrenaline, and help us problem-solve effectively. But there’s no doubt it can also take a toll on your mental health.

Caring for Estranged Parents: Needs and Considerations

Caring for Estranged Parents: Needs and Considerations

What you do is a deeply personal decision without a definitive right or wrong answer. You have the right to take time to explore what you need, and it’s okay if you aren’t sure what’s best for you right now. Here are some guidelines that may help.

The Death of a Close Friend: Understanding Your Grief

The Death of a Close Friend: Understanding Your Grief

Unlike the death of spouses or core other family members, sometimes people unintentionally overlook the significance of a friend’s death. However, this experience can feel just as shocking or gutting as any other loss.

Should You Change Careers or Retire?

Should You Change Careers or Retire?

At some point, many working professionals face this kind of dilemma: they’re burnt out, apathetic about work, or unsure whether they want to stay in their current role. This inner battle causes them to question: do I retire? Do I stick it out? Do I look for a different job altogether?

What Causes Couples to Divorce Later in Life?

What Causes Couples to Divorce Later in Life?

In any situation, divorce can be emotionally and logistically complicated. While each relationship is unique- and each divorce has unique considerations- here are some common reasons couples part ways after a long-term marriage.

5 Steps to Build a Friendship With Yourself

5 Steps to Build a Friendship With Yourself

Do you embody self-love and embrace an internal sense of friendship? If you don’t, you’re not alone. Many people struggle to care for themselves in the ways they often show up and care for others.